Any advice for a 21-year-old who hates their job and has the possibility of traveling the world? And has a boyfriend that they like. (This is for a friend.)
Go do it. Fuck him. Is he a guy in his 20s? Then he's the least significant type of person on the planet. A male in their 20s? Run in the opposite direction. Nothing he says matters; his fears, his hopes his dreams are garbage. Men in their 20s are the worst thing happening on our planet. Go, go to Uzbekistan, go to South Korea, just go anywhere he isn't because men in their 20s are bad for young women.
So what do women in their 20s do?
Masturbate. Date other women for a while. Use men sexually for a while but don't ever invite their opinion or be bound to them in any way.
None of this is to say that cunnilingus is new (people have been putting their mouths on each other’s genitals since always) or that we’re super-evolved when it comes to vaginas (we still mock them for being too smelly, too hairy, too big, and refer to them by the same name we call cowards). But the act — and being skilled at it — has increasingly become equated with masculinity. It’s not quite culturally tantamount to a big dick, but it’s getting close.
Unfortunately, this isn’t necessarily a good thing for the ladies. As Lux Alptraum, CEO of Fleshbot, points out, “The pairing of oral skill with manliness makes cunnilingus less about the woman receiving it than about the man performing it” and “the woman’s pleasure more about validating the man’s skill than about the woman herself having a good time.”
Damn! They even are making receiving oral sex about the menz! CAN’T WE HAVE ANYTHING?